Fox Tail Butt Plugs: Your Complete Guide to Safe, Fun Play

Fox tail butt plugs are exactly what they sound like. A butt plug with a fluffy tail attached to the base. They sit at the crossroads of roleplay and anal play, and they have a surprisingly big fanbase for good reason. The tail looks playful. The plug feels good. And together, they make for a pretty memorable experience.

Whether you are brand new to anal toys or already own a few, this guide covers everything you need to know. Materials, sizing, how to use them safely, how to clean them, and what to look for when buying your first one.

What exactly is a fox tail butt plug?

A fox tail butt plug is a butt plug with a decorative tail attached to the base.

The tail is usually made from faux fur. It hangs down or drapes behind you when worn. Most tails are designed to look like a fox tail, which is where the name comes from.

The plug itself works just like any other anal toy. It inserts, the flared base keeps it in place, and the tail hangs freely outside the body.

These toys are popular in a few different scenes. Some people use them for petplay, a type of roleplay where one person takes on an animal persona. Others just enjoy how they look and feel. There is no single right reason to try one.

What materials are fox tail butt plugs made from?

The plug and the tail are made from different materials, so it helps to think about them separately.

For the plug itself, you will usually see three options:

• Stainless steel is the most common. It is smooth, heavy, and very easy to clean. Steel plugs are non-porous, which means bacteria cannot get inside the material. They also hold temperature well, so you can warm or cool them before use.
• Silicone is softer and more flexible. Great for beginners because it has a little give. Make sure it is body-safe, medical-grade silicone.
• Glass is similar to steel in feel. Firm, smooth, and non-porous. Less common but still a solid option.

For the tail, most are made from faux fur. This is animal-friendly and easy to find in different colors. Real fur tails exist but are less common. Faux fur is the standard and works just fine.

How do you choose the right size?

Start smaller than you think you need. This is the most common mistake beginners make.

Fox tail plugs come in a range of sizes. The plug diameter is the most important measurement. For first-timers, anything under 1.25 inches wide is a reasonable starting point.

Here is a simple breakdown:

• Small (under 1 inch wide): Best for complete beginners. Very easy to insert and comfortable for longer wear.
• Medium (1 to 1.5 inches wide): Good for people who have used anal toys before. A satisfying stretch without going too far.
• Large (over 1.5 inches wide): For experienced users who want more fullness.

The neck of the plug matters too. A narrower neck means the plug stays in place more easily. A wider neck creates more of a stretching sensation throughout.

Pro tip: If you are new to anal play, check out an anal training kit before jumping to a full-sized fox tail plug. Starting with smaller tapered toys makes the whole experience more comfortable.

How do you use a fox tail butt plug safely?

Using one safely comes down to three things: preparation, lube, and patience.

1. Clean the plug: Wash it with warm water and mild soap or a dedicated sex toy cleaner before use.
2. Use plenty of lube: The anal canal does not produce its own lubrication. You need a good lube every single time. More than you think.
3. Relax first: Take your time. Breathe. Tension makes insertion uncomfortable. Give yourself a few minutes to relax before starting.
4. Insert slowly: Go in at a gentle angle, tip first. Do not force it. If there is pain, stop.
5. Check the fit: Once inserted, the flared base should sit flat against the body. The tail hangs freely outside. Nothing should feel pinched or uncomfortable.
6. Remove carefully: Pull out slowly and gently. Never yank. Your muscles need a moment to release.

Pain is always a signal to stop. Mild pressure or a sense of fullness is normal. Sharp pain is not.

What lube should you use with a fox tail butt plug?

The right lube depends on what material your plug is made from.

• Water-based lube works with everything. Silicone, steel, and glass. It is the safest all-around choice. You may need to reapply since it absorbs over time.
• Silicone-based lube lasts longer and is great with steel or glass plugs. Do not use silicone lube with silicone toys. It can break down the surface of the material.
• Hybrid lube sits somewhere in between. Longer lasting than water-based but generally safe with most materials. Check the product label to be sure.

Browse the full range at the anal lube collection to find a good match for your plug material.

The anal canal has no natural lubrication. Skipping lube is the number one cause of discomfort with anal toys.

How do you clean a fox tail butt plug?

Cleaning is a little more involved than a regular plug because you have two different materials to deal with.

For the plug:

• Steel and glass plugs can be boiled, wiped with a 10% bleach solution, or run through the dishwasher on the top rack with no soap.
• Silicone plugs can be boiled or hand-washed with warm soapy water. Do not use a bleach solution on silicone.

For the tail:

• Most faux fur tails can be spot-cleaned with a damp cloth and mild soap.
• Do not submerge the tail fully, especially if it is attached to a metal connector. Let it air dry completely before storing.
• Some tails are detachable, which makes cleaning much easier.

Pro tip: Look for a fox tail plug where the tail detaches from the plug. This lets you deep-clean the plug properly without worrying about the tail getting wet or damaged.

How long can you wear a fox tail butt plug?

Keep wear time short when you are starting out. Thirty minutes to an hour is plenty for a beginner.

Your body needs time to get used to any anal toy. Wearing one for too long before you have built up tolerance can cause soreness or discomfort.

As you get more experience, you can wear them for longer periods. Some people wear plugs for several hours at a stretch. The key is listening to your body. Any discomfort, numbness, or pressure means it is time to remove it.

You can read more about extended wear in our article on how long you can wear a butt plug.

Are fox tail butt plugs good for beginners?

Yes, as long as you choose the right size and take your time.

The tail itself does not affect how the plug feels inside. It just hangs outside the body. So from a comfort standpoint, a fox tail plug is no different from a regular butt plug of the same size and material.

The main thing beginners need to get right is size. Go small. Use lots of lube. Be patient with yourself.

If you have never used an anal toy before, reading through a full guide on how to use a butt plug is a good first step before buying anything.

What should you look for when buying one?

There are a few things worth checking before you buy.

• Flared base: This is not optional. Every anal toy must have a flared base to prevent it from going too far inside. No flared base means do not buy it.
• Body-safe material: Stick to steel, glass, or medical-grade silicone for the plug portion.
• Detachable tail: Makes cleaning much easier. Look for a screw-on or clip-on attachment.
• Tail length: Shorter tails are easier to manage. Longer tails look more dramatic but can get in the way during certain positions.
• Smooth finish: The plug surface should be completely smooth with no rough edges or seams.

Browse the full animal tail butt plug collection to see what is available across different sizes and materials.

Frequently Asked Questions

Can fox tail butt plugs be used during sex?

Yes. Many people use them during partnered sex or solo play. The tail moves with your body, which some people find adds to the experience. Just make sure the plug is comfortable and well-seated before things get going.

How do I know if the plug is the right size for me?

A well-fitting plug should slide in without pain and feel secure once inserted. The base should sit flat against your body without digging in. If you feel sharp discomfort or like you have to work to keep it in place, the size is off. Try going down a size or adjusting your approach.

Can I use a fox tail butt plug for petplay?

Yes, that is one of the most common reasons people buy them. Petplay is a form of consensual roleplay where someone takes on the persona of an animal. The fox tail plug is a popular accessory for this. As with any roleplay, communication and mutual comfort are what matter most.

Do steel fox tail plugs feel cold when inserted?

Steel does feel cool at first, but it warms up quickly from your body heat. Some people actually enjoy warming a steel plug slightly in warm water before use. Just make sure it is not too hot before inserting. Test the temperature on your wrist first.

Is it safe to use a fox tail butt plug anally and then for another activity without cleaning it?

No. Always clean any toy thoroughly before using it in a different way or on a different person. This applies to all anal toys, not just fox tail plugs. Skipping cleaning between uses is how bacteria spreads.

What is the best lube for a steel fox tail plug?

Water-based or silicone-based lube both work well with steel. Silicone-based lasts longer and is a popular choice for anal play since you do not have to reapply as often. Either way, use more than you think you need.