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The harness does its job and disappears into the moment. This is the kind of night that does not need a lot of explanation afterward. It just gets remembered. She brings it up a week later and smiles. He already knows why. 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A night that starts with something new tends to end with both of them closer, more tuned in to each other, less distracted by everything outside that room. She will bring it up again. 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